Wednesday, March 10, 2010

118. Committed?




Q. I meet someone, date him, love him and then leave. What's my problem? Will I ever committ?

A. You're funny - and you have dater's ADD. Maybe you don't have a problem. Maybe you're not cut out for long-term relationships, or maybe you haven't met the right guy, or are dating the wrong type. Do you want to committ? have you ever committed? It's nice being in love with the right person; it's fun, the sex is steady (at least at my house), and you get to know someone. But the truth is, any decent relationship is work, and if you have a job that keeps you super busy, then a relationship may be a chore.

Ask yourself this: what is it you really want?