I am alarmed about the number of people I am hearing of, who are headed for divorce after less than six months of marriage.
Why?
Why are they getting married if they are not 1000% sure that they want to spend the rest of their lives with this man?
I am even hearing stories that some women are starting affairs only weeks after the big day? (yes, women)
That makes no sense.
Surely these women have already lived with their man before they married them?
Met their friends and their family? Dealt with their COD addiction?
And surely they have gone on lots of holidays with them too?
I am a firm believer you don't know anyone until you have lived together and gone on holidays together, as nothing tests a relationship like cancelled flights and lost luggage!!
If you have your eye on someone else already, then you have no right to hold a wedding. (It's heartbreaking to others and there are starving children in your suburb FFS!!)
There should be no real suprises after the "I Do" part
It's really, really not cool girlfriends.
Get it together. You are being gross and selfish.
