196. Dear Diary..

Struggling to get into the mood?

Start keeping a private diary of all the lewd fantasies you have thought about or thought of acting out

Sometimes just putting those thoughts into words will keep you "motivated" more often..

155. Stop Your Carry On

We love our BFF's. And we have a tendency to turn to them whenever we are having trouble with boys.

The problem here is, being girls ourselves, we can help each other turn nothing into a big something.

I'd get relationship advice from another guy before I'd get it from my BFF. He would let me know if I actually had something to fret over or if I was just carrying on over nothing.

I absolutely know this first hand better than most.

I love my BFF but she loves me dearly so sometimes I know she just tells me what I want to hear and not what actually I need to..

130. Good Advice from a Glamour Guru..

Michael Kors is a true aficinado of timeless style..

The Hollywood designer was interviewed in Australian Vogue recently and had this to say about acting glamourous to attract a mate, not just looking the goods.

"It is not glamourous to take your BlackBerry out at the dinner table. Be present. Listen to what people have to say, be empathetic and think about how you wanted to be treated.

And use a little indulgence. We're all so busy and we all try to be good, to eat well, to exercise. Once in a while have a piece of cheesecake - it's not going to kill you. The women who are glamourous are always willing to have a little fun. Every man is excited when a woman orders a hearty meal; no-one wants to see a woman ordering a side salad"

For added glamour, Ive been wearing Kors new parfume "Michael Kors Very Hollywood' all day. It's seriously sex in a pretty glass bottle.

I'll be wearing it again as I head out later for some dinner. And some cheesecake.

3. Drop Me a Note!

Whilst I am going to be frank in this blog, I am also going to be serious - I really believe that I can offer some sound advice therefore if you have a question and you would like a private answer or you just want to see a blog about something - drop me a line at therelationshipdoctor.com@gmail.com - I would love to hear from you!

1. Welcome

This is a blog for anyone who wants a relationship or is in one and wants to save it or wants to fix it or perhaps just make it better. Its for every one of my girlfriends who called me in tears late at night or sent me dramatic texts during the day or even posted woeful messages on their facebook. This is real advice i should have told them then. Hopefully its not too late to help them or you either dear reader.