171. Winter Warmer..

With most of Australia experiencing really, really cold weather this winter.. its time to drag out a game or two that is guarenteed to make you warmer!


TIME BOMB
You need: A clock or an egg timer.

How to play: Pick a time interval -- 20 minutes, let's say. (If you're like us, even 10 minutes will be a change from the norm.) Whatever interval you choose, absolutely do not allow penetration until that much time has elapsed.

Why: Most busy couples have foreplay down to a science -- and a bare minimum as well. "Time Bomb" refocuses you on the pregame show, the part that used to be so much fun before you lived together. You'll be surprised by how much slowing down changes things. You get really creative. You'll get really hot.

28. Porn Again

Today I received an email from a reader who was frustrated about her boyfriend watching porn. My reader was feeling rather left out. I suggested the following game for two..

Next time, your man wants to watch strangers get it on, let him know you want to join him.

However, for the first half of hour of the viewing... neither of you can touch each other or yourselves. Then next time, change the rules slightly so he can't touch you at all until its over. You, on the other hand, are free to do as you please.

I guarantee you will definitely feel like a major star of the show.



NB The viewing of pornographic material involving anyone under the age of 18 is illegal and the Relationship Dr does not condone it.