Q: You can't really change a man, can you?
A: You can change a man's habits, but not who he is. The easiest thing to change is that way you respond to him. This will cause a chain reaction and eventually his behaviour will change.
I can assure you of this from personal experience. I've known very bad men who have been changed by the right women several times. For example, lets say your man constantly loses things, and always ropes you into his searching panic. You can't stop him from losing things, but you can simply ignore him by continuing with what you were doing, and not dropping everything to help him search.
Your lack of response will teach him. If you don't like it, don't respond.
