Whilst I am a huge fan of sparks and butterflies when it comes to love, long term love will need more.
Need further proof?
When asked if she would marry her husband of 35 years again (after 4 children, 3 hectic but successful businesses, lots of family drama, tragedy and heartache), a wise woman said to me "No, he is not a safe place to fall"
See how your man acts in a crisis that doesn't affect him - the truth about the future doesn't get any clearer than that.
