A few years back I worked with a guy called David. He was transferred to my work with his girlfriend Tracey.
On the night that he arrived, David commenced his first affair with another girl that we worked with.
A few months later and David was having an affair with a further three women.
None of the other women knew about each other. All of them knew about Tracey and all of them worked together.
Tracey knew about none of them.
One day David decided to make the last of his affairs physical. He booked a hotel room and took the youngest of his girfriends, Chloe, to the hotel and had sex with her.
It was her 16th birthday.
Later that day, he dropped her back at her mum and dad's and then picked up Tracey who was just finishing work and took her to the same hotel room. He told her that it was a suprise for her.
He told his secret lovers that he couldn't break up with Tracey as she had cancer.
Eventually, it was all too much for Chloe and she called Tracey and told her that whilst she sympathised about the cancer, Tracey had to realise that David and Chloe were in love.
Of course there was a massive fallout.
And Tracey dumped David.
David contiuned to sleep with all the other women for a few months until the extent of his lies became apparent.
A few years later and I met a girl at work called Kylie.
Kylie was also transferred to my work.
Kylie had been in a long term relationship for four years with a guy called Mike.
They continued their very serious relationship long distance.
Except Kylie almost instantly started sleeping with other people.
She too booked hotel rooms for her secret lover.
And bought expensive lingerie to wear on this tryst.
Her boyfriend thought she was working.
She told alot of lies. Some of her trysts were married.
Men have a bad reputation for cheating, but women do it too.
Some people just do really bad things. These people are very selfish and immature. They are not emotionally evolved at all.
If you know someone like this, then please get away from them.
This behaviour is indicative that there is a bigger psychological problem at stake.
And they don't deserve you in their life.
