It is never okay for your partner to call you names.
Not stupid, not fat, not lazy.
Ever.
You absolutely do NOT deserve to be spoken to or treated like that at any stage.
There is never a good enough excuse on his part for that sort of poor behaviour.
He is clearly unintelligent and doesn't deserve you.
You are a gorgeous, clever, kind woman who does not have to accept that.
And if he ever, ever hits you, call the police.
