Even if you are the prettiest, funniest, cleverest person you know, you won't be a good partner if you don't exert some effort.
FTR, this is not calling when you said you would or even offering to do your share of emptying the dishwasher without being asked.
It's really, really showing your gf/bf that you appreciate the fact they are in your life by occasionally going above and beyond the norm and doing something just a little bit special.
For them.
I cannot be any clearer than that..
