Wednesday, November 25, 2009

13. Dull Down the Drama


Women love to share private information. They believe that this helps them bond with another. For men - its as scary as hell.

Men are simple folk. Too much drama, sadness, scariness or excitementness (it's a word..) is frankly, too much!

Men like mystery. They do not like hearing your stories about psycho ex-boyfriends, crazed stalkers, sexually aggressive bosses, jealous ex-husbands, unloving mothers or weirdo neighbours until you have been together as a couple for a year and he knows you well. Giving all that up too soon and you will risk coming across like way too much trouble. Men think about how much a woman and her drama will affect their Sunday afternoon relax time and will cancel you out if pushed.

Need further proof?

Someone I know well, received a message from someone else I know well and it said "I think you are one really cool chick and one I want to hang out with. I don't like all this drama" She considered herself warned. Another boy who was less of a wordsmith may just have stopped calling.