How familiar to you is this scenario - your partner comes home from work and announces to you "I've had such a bad day" to which you reply "Me too"
And let me guess - one of your big complaints to your girlfriends is that your boyfriend never wants to talk, like really talk to you?
I don't blame him. You are too self-centered. If your day was that bad and filled with an emergency, then you would have called him.
Wait your turn Little Miss All About You.
And then I guarantee once he has got his bad day off his chest, he'll ask how your day was. And he would have enjoyed that talk and could, maybe, just be keen for another talk soon.
Remember, he is called your partner because you are equals. You don't deserve any more attention that he does.